What are Mommies Made of?

Have you ever wondered what other Mom’s lives look like? Have you been trying to get your kids out the door and thought “Am I missing something? How does everyone else do this?” Have you ever been interested in wanting to know more about Mom’s like you?

I was honoured to interview Bonnie Giampa from Virgil, Ontario. Here is a look into another Mom's life! Thanks Bonnie!

Please tell me about yourself Bonnie.

My name is Bonnie Giampa, I am a wife, mother of a five year old son Matteo and a three year old daughter Madison. I also opened my own business four years ago called Balance Fitness Studio. My day starts at about six A.M. when Madison gets me up. I would like to say she comes into my bedroom to wake me up, but I would not be telling the truth. Truth be told we play musical beds in our house. By the morning I am usually in my son’s bed, which is where Madison also ends up most of the time also. Then it is a mad dash to get Matteo on the bus. Every morning we do and say the same things. Hurry Matteo, Charlie (our bus driver) is almost here. We run out there with our jackets half off, and he makes it every time! One thing about me is I am always running behind. This also drives my husband nuts. After opening my business my husband and I work around each other's schedule so one of us is always home with the children. It has worked well for us, and yes it might be difficult at times but that is one thing I would never change. My work usually starts after the kids go to bed. I do most of my work from my computer, and have staff and a business partner who is at my business most of time. So my days are long, very long actually. Some nights I am on the computer or doing payroll until 2am. But too be honest I love that time. I like the time to myself where I can collect my thoughts, and have no one pulling me in different directions. I have always been a night hawk so it works well for me!

What state is typical for your living area?

My house is what I like to call a perfect storm. Why, because I know where everything is. I might have many piles, but I know what is in those piles. Move them around and I would be lost. My floors are dirty, my kitchen is clean, and my bathrooms well they have seen better days. I try to keep my children's toys in the living room, with the exception of (who are we kidding), there are toys everywhere. From books, dinky cars and dolls it is difficult to find a room that looks great in our house. Our house is lived in. I am pretty laid back and so is my husband. We are known to play hockey on our hard wood floors, and catch from our great room to our kitchen. Probably why it looks the way it does. But for us, again it works great.

If you had to pick one thing that you enjoyed most about being a Mom, what would it be?

I love just being with our children. When I cuddle with them, hold them, kiss them it makes me realize what is truly important. They are the best part of me, and love so unconditionally. I remember so many nights just holding and rocking in the dark bedroom and feeling, nothing could ever be more fulfilling. To be honest I miss those nights, so when they come to get me out of my bed I don’t mind going to cuddle with them one more time.

If you had to pick one struggle that you have, being a Mom, what would it be?

I struggle with the pull of trying to be a stay at home mom, and business owner all at the same time. I try so hard to be there whole heartily when we are together, and sometimes I wonder is it enough.

What is the most important thing you want to teach your children?

I want my children to follow their passion. To never settle for something they don’t want, and to love unconditionally.

What are you afraid of?

I am afraid of three things. Losing my husband, my son or my daughter. I know I would never recover.

Do you have any tricks for getting out the door?

I have no tricks for getting out the door, because I am always late. Still trying to figure that one out.

What are some things you continue to do for yourself?

The struggle of being a mom and wife and still doing things for yourself is always a battle. But there are things I continue to do every week. I play volleyball in a girls league, with my sisters and my girlfriends. It is our time, to be just us. I am also known to get myself a Tazo Chai from Starbucks and sit at Chapters reading a great magazine or book! Got to love Starbucks.

If you are interested, or know someone that would be, in being a featured Mommy on Tea Time please leave a comment or email me at littlemrs@yahoo.ca.